Let Go to Grow: 12 Lessons in Loving Bravely
How to journey beyond heartbreak.
A man can once so easily say “I love you” and not love you after. Because saying “I love you” is easier than showing love, or because he never truly or deeply loved you. Only you belittled yourself in that love. Mutual belittling in love is caring for each other. You were brave, but it’s a pity, one-sided belittling is not being cherished.
It is time to move on. Here are twelve piercing love quotes to accompany you to bravely let go and journey beyond heartbreak!
1. A love not advancing together will never lead to happiness.
You are not greedy and you did well enough. Love is not only your understanding and cooperation but also the other’s restraint. Love is not only your unilateral compromise but also the other’s silent adjustment. Don’t relent further if love not advancing together will never lead to happiness. Time to pause and then move on. Don’t keep losing yourself for strange reasons. Always keeping someone will only make you lose more of yourself.
The lesson:
Real love is two-sided effort and growth. Don’t settle for less, or keep giving yourself away to one who won’t meet you halfway. You deserve happiness, and to find it you must let go of the one who won’t walk with you there.
2. If he could make you happy, you would have been happy long ago.
He left while you are left behind. He was cruel but you still feeling regret. Or did you gather the courage to leave, then find you’re a coward as you doubt your decision was rushed? You regret past happiness, past promise words, and scenes in your mind on repeat. What frustrates you most maybe, if you two once were in sync, why couldn’t you work harder to get past later obstacles together?
The lesson:
True love is working through challenges together, not just sharing easy times. Letting go of the one who won’t do that, then releasing yourself to find one who will. Read More…