Love is a good feeling when it is true and every man likes to
wine and dine with his woman, making her feel special and
loved. However in the course of carrying out his many duties,
he also has to take care not to be taken on a fool’s ride by
crafty women, below are five sings to know if she only wants
you for your money. (You might probly break-up with her –
like I did. LOL)
1. She Never Pays for Anything:
Your gold digger alert better be flashing a bright red signal if
you have to always pay for all the dates that you go on. There
is something wrong if the movie dates, restaurant bills and
other expenses incurred while together always have to be
settled by you. While it is good for you to treat your lady
right, this is the 21st century and a woman is a helper, you
shouldn’t pay for everything all the time. There should be
times she is also willing to treat you or split the bills with
you.
2. She Demands for Expensive Things:
Singer Davido already said it all in his hit song “Aye” when
he said his babe doesn’t want Ferrari or designers but his
love.If you are dating a girl that is always demanding for
expensive things you should start reconsidering the real
motive of the relationship. Expensive gifts are all the more
special only when they are done rarely and willingly. If your
girl seems to be the materialistic type, then in all likelihood
she won’t stick with you during bad times; she will leave you
the next minute a richer person wants her.
3. Her Friends Always Come Along On Dates:
Another sign to show that a Nigerian girl is interested in your
money rather than you is when you go on dates and she has a
friend or two along. Wise up already, three is a crowd and
when you asked her out you weren’t asking to sign up to date
her entire clique. Keep it at the back of your mind that if she
is in the habit of buying take away stuffs for her friends back
home then you are just another Nigerian maga.
4. She Lacks Career Aspiration:
Think twice before dating a Nigerian girl that lacks career
aspiration, if she is not willing to work and make her own
money then you are entering danger zone if you move in her
direction. A girl that is dependent who looks to get what she
wants or prefers her man does everything does not need any
further introduction, just take to your heels. If she isn’t self
reliant, it only means as her man she would expect you to
pick up all her bills, in this case you become Mr. Fix It.
5. She is Overtly Curious about Your Financial Status:
This particular sign works in two ways, a girl might actually
be interested in your financial status to make sure that she is
dating a financially secure man. On the other hand she could
also be asking to calculate how much she can milk from you
or if you are worth her time. When a girl is more curious
about your bank account statement than in you, keep your
guards up and be on the lookout for any of the other signs
mentioned earlier to help determine if she just wants to chop
your money.
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