15 Signs He Doesn't Love You, He Only Loves Using You
If you keep giving and giving and get nothing in return, then he's using you.
Back when I actually used to date guys seriously, there was one guy I had dated that really was unique in my mind. We’ll call him John. He was charming, and handsome, and had been gifted a tongue made of pure silver. With those qualities, he always had a knack for getting me to lend him money, have sex with him, and just tolerate bad behavior.
However, whenever I needed something, he would disappear. Though I loved John, I eventually realized he didn’t love me. He just loved using me. If you are asking yourself "Is he using me?" and want to avoid dating your own version of him, keep an eye out for these signs.
Here are 15 signs he doesn't love you, he only loves using you:
1. At first, he was really generous but now, you’re always footing the bill for everything
I had this happen with both John and one other guy. Both times, “I’ll pay you back” turned into “Well, things are still tight. Why are you so stingy?” I eventually realized that they did this on purpose so that they could gain my trust enough to basically let them mooch off of me. Read More…