150+ Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend To Spark Conversation
Good conversation is the food for a healthy, thriving relationship.
Relationship research tells us that self-disclosure is linked with increased intimacy and happier relationships—that is, when couples share more about their inner worlds, they feel closer and more connected to each other, and their relationship becomes strengthened as a result of it.
So, the next time you're bored or feel like your date night could use a conversational boost, consider using this time to get to know each other better. Remember: No matter how long you've known each other, how similar the two of you are as people, or how in love you are, there's always more to learn about your partner.
Here are some ideas for what to talk about with your girlfriend or partner to spark interesting conversation, whether you're looking for something deep, something dirty, or just something fun.
Deep questions to ask your girlfriend:
1. Why do you think you are the way you are in relationships?
2. What does an ideal relationship look like to you?
3. What do you think about the concept of marriage?
4. What does commitment mean to you?
5. What do you think you would be like as a mother?
6. What scares you about becoming a parent?
7. Do you feel like you've found your life purpose?
8. What are the values you hold dearest to you?
9. What is your greatest fear?
10. When did you last cry in front of another person?
11. When is the last time you felt truly, exuberantly happy?
12. Are you close with your family?
13. Do you think your family knows the real you?
14. What is your relationship with your parents like?
15. Has it always been that way?
16. What was your childhood like?
17. Would you change anything about the way you grew up?
18. Do you feel like money affected the way you grew up? How so?
19. Do you feel like race has affected your life? How so?
20. What do you think your younger self would think about who you are today?. Read More...