2 Harsh Reasons You Still Haven't Found A Good Man (After All These Years)
There are no good men out there? Maybe you're overlooking something.
When I was 17, I either liked people right away ... or I didn’t. I didn’t stop much to think about why I felt that way. I was either drawn to a certain person or not. And if I was, they would become my friend. If I wasn’t, I wouldn’t even acknowledge their existence because I just didn’t have time for that nonsense.
Years down the road, however, life became more complicated. I started to understand that most people are not what they at first seem. I started taking the time to scratch that surface to find my "diamonds in the rough." As a result, I've met many remarkable people with whom I formed long-lasting friendships — all because I was willing to understand their strengths and forgive their weaknesses.
Of course, time is on our side when it comes to wisdom and understanding in friendships. Not so much when it comes to dating. That's why most people use the "judge them quickly and toss them aside" approach to screening potential romantic matches. Read More…