Clear Signs She’s Ready for a Serious Relationship with You
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Loading... - Noah Janssen
- 03 May 2023
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Take a closer look at how she handles life when shit hits the fan.
We talk about how men just want to sleep around and never commit. But in reality, women aren’t that different.
Especially nowadays when the media encourages women to stay single forever, committing to a man has become a choice — rather than an obligation.
On the other hand, choosing a woman who’s ready to be in a serious relationship is important. You want to make sure she has the quality to be a true partner and worth fighting for.
Otherwise, something like this will happen — where she packed her bag and left the moment things get tough.
Here are some clear signs she’s ready to build a life together with you:
Realistic expectations
Women are known for their unrealistic expectations. Not all, of course. But I’m a woman myself and it can be true sometimes.
We tend to have too high of expectations.
I’ll give you the most common basic example. Back in my home country (Indonesia), there’s this unspoken rule that once you marry a woman, you have to give her allowance money.
All of my married friends are getting a monthly allowance just to buy makeup and update their wardrobes.
So even when we were kids, we already had this expectation in our heads that someone would take care of us.
All we need to do is to look for the husband and hopefully, he’s rich enough to support our lifestyle.
So when the man who isn’t falling into that type of system decided to ask for a 50:50 effort, the woman got upset. There are so many expectations that women don’t want to talk about openly.
So knowing how high her expectation is will be the first thing you need to pay attention to. Are they realistic? Do you think you can fulfill it?
As much as it is important to make her happy, you also need to know your limit. Too much compromise without anything in return is never a good thing. Read More…
