How to Feel Sexy When You Are Not
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Loading... - Ambrose Mavros
- 26 Oct 2022
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Sometimes it’s hard to feel sexy, especially when you’re not. Sexiness is all about confidence and your mindset, so feeling sexy is sexy! But in many cases, this requires you to spin a web of lies and self-delusion in order to maintain a semblance of self-confidence while existing in the world. So, here’s how to do that!
Imagine you are someone else.
We all know that roleplaying with a partner can spice things up in a relationship, but it can also spice things up in your relationship to yourself! If you’re standing at the bar having a hard time feeling seductive because you forgot to brush your teeth this morning and have a layer of plaque that you can feel with your tongue, then simply dissociate from your corporeal form and pretend you are Geena Davis at any time in her life or career. This is like VR, but only in your mind!
Redefine what it means to be sexy.
So maybe you aren’t sexy, but that’s only because you’re working within an outdated framework of what sexiness is! Maybe being sexy is actually all about feeling exhausted, wearing yesterday’s underwear inside out, and having a bit of a head cold. Once you instill this new rubric, you’ll suddenly be the sexist person at the function. The rest of society might be slower to catch on, but at least you’re on the right track. Read More...
