How to Lock It Down Even Though He Is Avoidant and a Time Traveler From the Future
Taking a relationship to the next level can be nerve-wracking when your partner is overly protective of his freedom. It’s even worse when he suffers from a paranormal genetic disorder that causes him to sporadically and unpredictably travel through time. Here are some tips for how to lock it down even though he has an avoidant attachment style and is also a time traveler from the future who only visits when the cosmic forces at play send him to you.
Don’t be afraid to ask him to go steady directly.
It’s better not to mince your words with an avoidant partner because he’ll only feel safe if he knows exactly how you feel. Also, you have no clue how much time you have together, as he could be whisked away at any moment, and it’s better to get your feelings out immediately, lest you risk him being pulled away to another time when you guys aren’t dating, or worse, when he’s dating someone else. Lock it down! Lock it down now!
Always keep a spare pair of clothes around.
If he’s avoidant, it can be nerve-wracking to keep clothes at someone’s else’s place, because it might imply a level of commitment he’s not comfortable with. Also, when he beams into this time period from god-knows-when, he will be naked, cold, and afraid, as clothes don’t travel well through time wormholes and he never knows when a spontaneous neutron-powered jump might happen. Let him know you care by always keeping a pair of jeans and a t-shirt on your person! Read More…
