Nasty dating trend – “Mosting” is even more cruel than “ghosting”
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- 02 Feb 2023
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First a lot of attention and then suddenly nothing at all: what's behind the dating trend and how you can recognize the red flags.
Swipe endlessly on dating apps, every now and then there's a match, then maybe a meeting. Almost everyone knows horror date stories, regardless of whether they met offline or online.
But sometimes there are really good dates. Encounters with glowing cheeks, butterflies in your stomach and a big grin afterwards. And you think: Maybe I actually got the golden ticket!
Unfortunately, such dates don't always mean happy endings. After ghosting (you are suddenly completely ignored from one moment to the next without warning) now also mosting!
The term mosting is made up of the English “most” and “ghosting”, in which, as described above, the other suddenly disappears into thin air like a ghost.
Even worse than ghosting
At mosting, you'll be showered with so much attention that it's almost too good to be true. And that's it: Suddenly you're being ghosted and, after the initial overflow of love, you fall into an even deeper hole. So mosting is the even more unscrupulous variant of ghosting.
However, so that it doesn't get that far and you become a victim of mosting, it is important to look out for possible signs - the red flags. For example, when you are overwhelmed with premature and very effusive declarations of love, which is also known as "love bombing" . If everything just fits, you always agree, have exactly the same interests and your counterpart reads every little wish from your eyes, this can be a sign of mosting.
There are many reasons why people become mosting monsters. Sometimes they want to boost their ego by having someone fall madly in love with them. Or they hope for a financial or material advantage or want to get someone into bed quickly. Sometimes a fear of commitment hides behind this behavior. Read More…
