Others really don't care how you live, please just be yourself!
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Loading... - Kexin Cheng
- 09 Feb 2023
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Humans are social animals, people live in the world, no matter how lonely and unsociable, you still have to interact with people in order to survive in this world. However, if you care too much about other people's opinions and evaluations in your life, you may end up living a life that others admire, but in the end you are not the self you admire.
#1. The things you thought would be embarrassing to be seen and known, actually no one cares.
Many things that you thought would be embarrassing and embarrassing if you were found out, such as watching a movie alone or going to a restaurant alone; as large as losing a job, losing a relationship and becoming single, losing competition for job promotion, and living a poor quality of life. "Do you think" it would be a little embarrassing, or even a little embarrassing private matter, to be known by others. In fact, when others hear it, they will only regard it as an instant news, and forget it completely in the next second. Others really don't care much about how your life is going.
#2. No one will remember the humiliation and unbearableness you think is huge after time passes.
Those who you regard as the stains or setbacks in life may still be unavoidable and ashamed when facing others. Gossip and gossip will make it difficult for you to let go and let go. But when the time is long and the eyes are far away, give it a little time to dissipate. Ultimately, no one will remember your fall, or even remember it long ago. Because people only care about what happens to themselves; other people's affairs are at most a second of emotion. As long as they have nothing to do with themselves, people's attention will immediately be drawn back to themselves. Read More…
