Saucy solo sex tips to enhance orgasms during masturbation play
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Loading... - Arturo Ortiz
- 20 Jul 2022
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Masturbation is a key part of our sex lives.
As much as we all love a bit of sexual attention from our partners - there are many benefits to indulging in a little solo play.
You get to know exactly what you like, which angles work for you and you essentially get to learn what turns you on.
Throughout your entire life the only sex partner you're going to be able to totally rely on is yourself.
This is why you shouldn't be afraid to try a few things out.
"Masturbation is like a pleasure lab and what you learn during masturbation will be useful knowledge during partner sex as well as future solo forays.
"Giving yourself pleasure sends yourself the message that you are worthy of it, and that feeling good is part of your tool kit of life.
"Plus its role in helping you sleep, dealing with cramps, distracting you from anxiety, etc., also helps you live your best life."
If you're someone who likes to indulge in a little solo play, you're probably clued up as to what works for you but - if you want to spice things up - here are some ideas that could help to take your alone time to the next level.
For the ladies
There are a few different moves the ladies can try to really take their alone time to the next level.
From using your toys in different ways to incorporating a mirror into the mix, here are some things you can try out.
The side spoon
You've probably tried this position with your partner, but it's also a good move to try when you're alone.
If you fancy changing things up try lying on your side, and put your hand or toy of choice between your legs.
For a little more friction squeeze your thighs together and do your thing.
Squat thrusts
If you didn't know squatting can do a lot of good for internal stimulation.
According to sexperts, all you need to do is get into the squat position (or kneel, if more comfortable) and use your toys or hands as you like.
The hand hump
Start by applying plenty of lube to your fingers and lie on your tummy before engaging in a little solo-play.
Lying on your tum will allow you to do what you want with your hand while grinding against it or sliding up and down.
Not to mention you can also use the weight of your entire body to put additional pressure on your clit.
The double circle
To pull it off use one finger to stimulate your clit while, at the same time, using a finger from your other hand to circle the entrance to the V.
Once you've practiced a little, and established a rhythm, you'll be more than glad that you tried it out.
The pretend lover
If you want to experiment try putting a dildo on a chair or on your bed and simply do your thing.
It's not a bad idea to pleasure yourself as you go too.
When you get into it you'll be able to rock your hips against your toy of choice.
Even if you find it difficult to achieve orgasm via penetration alone (like most women) it can still feel super good to engage in some play.
Mirror, mirror
Mirrors are there so we can look at ourselves, so why not watch yourself indulge in the ultimate pleasure?
Grab some lube and sit in front of a full-length mirror.
Start by putting a little on your nipples and indulge in a little boob play to figure out where your sweet spots are.
Touch yourself - from your belly to your thighs - and work down towards your vulva.
Really look at yourself when being pleasured, and take extra note of what turns you on, how you become aroused and - more importantly - how sexy you look and feel. Read More...
