Why do some people attract losers
You’re intelligent, reasonably attractive, have a good sense of humour and style, and yet all you ever attract are a bunch of losers.
Sound familiar?
Here are some possible mistakes you may be making without realizing it.
1. Not prioritizing yourself
There may be many options out there in the dating world. But don’t sit on the sidelines waiting while the person you are dating happily plays the field. Don’t hand your heart over if the person you’re seeing does not place an equal value on the relationship. Make sure you’re on the same page, or else move on.
2. There is no need to give multiple chances to someone who continuously disappoints and disrespects you
Everyone screws up sometimes, but if it keeps happening again, and again, it’s no longer a mistake and there is no need to keep giving the benefit of the doubt to someone who hurts you all the time, nor to forgive them and put up with the same mistakes over and over again.
3. Boundaries are there for a reason, stop moving them and bending them all over the place
Yes, one must be flexible at times, but not to the point where you keep moving the goalpost for something that is really important to you just to accommodate the needs of a significant other. If commitment/marriage is important to you, and you keep allowing your partner to say no and agree to ‘postpone’ things indefinitely, it sends a message that it’s not important to you, so why should it be important to them? Read More…
