Why you should stop threatening your partner with a breakup to get attention
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- 21 Sep 2022
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How do you get a misbehaving boyfriend to act right? And how do you make a man drop all the acts and concentrate his energy and effort on loving you right?
When you are in a relationship and he gets lukewarm with his affection, if his efforts are dipping and he no longer looks at you or pay attention to you as he used to, how do you get him back to his senses?
If your answer to that is to dump him so that he can miss you and come crawling back to you, you may have to rethink that strategy.
While it is true that losing something precious helps us realise how special that thing is, the rule may not apply at all times to relationships or to human beings. Emotions are more complex, relationships are more intricate and matters of the heart are not always as cut and dried as the adage ‘you don’t know the value of what have till you lose it.’
The best thing to do when your man’s efforts at loving you starts to dwindle is to communicate this to him as clearly as possible and in the most healthy manners imaginable. Let him know how you feel about his lack of effort, how you feel that the energy in the relationship is fading out and how you deserve more because you came into the relationship expecting just that.
Of course, to make these demands, one needs to be sure that they have been consistent at showing that partner the kind of love they’re asking for.
When all of that is said and done and he still pays no mind to you, then the right thing to do would be to let that man go. As a self-respecting woman who knows what she deserves, breaking up with a man who refuses to get his act right, despite several attempts at calling him to order, should be final and with a resolute mind. Read More…
