25 Questions To Ask A Guy To Know His True Intentions
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- 06 Jul 2022
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When you meet a new man and have a great connection, it’s natural to wonder where he stands emotionally.
Does he like me, or am I imagining it?
Does he see this going somewhere in the future, or is it more of a good enough for now situation?
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, you want to know sooner rather than later if he wants the same thing. Your time is too precious to waste on a dead-end fling. Summer flings are great, but you’ve got romance novels to indulge in those, and you’re looking for the real deal.
That’s why I’ve compiled a list of essential questions to ask a man so you can figure out what his true intentions are without having to directly ask him what his intentions are and risk scaring him away.
Questions To Ask A Guy To Know His True Intentions (If You Just Started Dating)
1. What do you like and dislike about dating?
This question will help you dig up dirt on how this man views the dating experience. Is he the kind of man who feels bitter and resentful because he hasn’t found his perfect mate yet, or does he have a positive outlook and view each new date as an opportunity to get to know someone new? His likes and dislikes about dating will show you what’s important to him when dating and what he’s ultimately looking for.
2. Do you like being single?
You can enjoy being single and be open to finding a relationship simultaneously. This is all about seeing how comfortable he is within and how desperate he is on a scale of 1-10 to couple up. The sweet spot is a man who is content being single but equally wants to find someone to share his life with. Someone who enjoys cuddles and takeout on the sofa as much as bar hopping on a Saturday night. Someone who loves boy’s night as much as date night.
3. What do you think about casual dating and hookups?
One of the many great questions to ask a guy to know his true intentions. Of course, he might lie to you, so remember to listen to what he says, but pay closer attention to his actions. If he tells you he isn’t into hookups and then invites you back to his place on the first date, he’s probably telling porkies.
4. Have you ever ghosted anyone?
Can you trust a man who has ghosted someone else in the past?
There are three possible answers to this question:
1. “No, I’ve never ghosted anyone,” when the truth is he ghosted a woman last month. This man is a liar and doesn’t have the courage to own up to his mistakes. Time to say, NEXT!
2. “Yes, I have ghosted women in the past, and I’m not proud of it.” A much better response because although what he did isn’t great; he’s taking accountability for his actions.
3. “No, I’ve never ghosted anyone,” and he’s telling you the truth because he’s a super decent man who would never think of doing such a thing. You’ve got a rare gem on your hands here.
5. What do your friends say about your dating life?
Our friends and family can often spot patterns and themes in our lives that we are oblivious to. This question will help you understand the difference between how he thinks his dating life is going versus what his friends think about his dating life. Does he have a reputation for falling too quickly or jumping from one relationship to the next without taking a breath? All great clues to give you more insight into how he ticks and what his intentions are with you. Read More…
