4 Immature Ways Couples Handle Disagreements
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Loading... - Joanita Candiru
- 12 Sep 2022
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You are teaching your partner to look for an alternative, and trust me, they will, and soon they’ll not need you again. Conflict isn’t always the problem, but how a Person chooses to Handle their conflict.
4 IMMATURE WAYS OF HANDLING DISAGREEMENTS
1) CRYING
Tears do not solve a matter. They only make your partner feel guilty even if they’re not wrong, feel bad, most likely they’ll start petting you, offer you a bribe, drop the issue, probably that’s what you wanted, but remember, the issue hasn’t been solved.
But it’s childish to keep using this approach whenever things get heated up, whether you’re right or wrong. Your partner will come to see you as a crybaby, and no body likes a crybaby.
2) GUILT TRIPPING
An issue is being addressed, and your next line of approach is to guilt trip your partner “so are you saying I’m wicked” “so you hate me this much?” “it’s okay, I can see I’m the problem, thank you,”
Implying and Saying things they didn’t imply or say. Just to make them feel guilty. This may be effective initially, but like crying, it has a very short life span and only makes your partner start resenting dating/marrying you. Read More…
