7 Signs You Are Not in Love
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- 01 May 2023
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One of the signs — You don’t enjoy their company.
Love is one of the most sought after, yet elusive desires of humans.
We all need love, whether we choose to admit it or not.
Love can be disguised or misrepresented.
Movies paint a picture of love, society paints an expectation of love.
Love is most often reflected from our family of birth. This experience good or bad shapes all our interactions with others whether it was good or bad.
Love has so many facets that we look for love even though we at times know unconsciously that it isn’t really there.
There are some signs when you not in love.
These signs are not exclusive but represents some actions or inactions you make take when you don’t truly love.
Focus is on the faults rather than the good qualities — everything irks you. The sound of their voice, their presence. You think only of all that is wrong and not all that is right. You find fault with everything. Even when they are trying to take the very suggestions you made.
You don’t enjoy their company — The thought of spending even a weekend together feels stressful. You feel guilty, but in reality, you would rather be anywhere -except around this person. The thought of seeing them even for a moment fills you with trepidation, anxiety and a general sense of unhappiness.
Little or no communication — Communication is limited to essentials. The thought of sharing your life goals or current goals you are working towards is inconceivable. Communication even when engaged can at times erupt into major conflict from misunderstanding and blaming. Read More…
