Beginner’s Guide To Breaking Up With Someone
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Loading... - Zara Wihan
- 31 Jan 2023
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Are you in a current situation-ship, or a relationship, that for whatever reason, you really need it to end or want it to stop? Because I have been there, a time or two, and with my experiences, I have developed some knowledge on how to successfully break up with someone in a way that is considerate, but also sticks.
Of course, we all know that with loving, there comes a risk of heartbreak, and that’s okay. You can’t beat yourself up for needing to stand up for yourself and set boundaries that are beneficial to you. You don’t always have to care about others more than yourself– sometimes you need to put yourself first.
That is valid. That is acceptable. That is okay. That is justified. That is what is best for you, and they’re going to just have to deal with the fact that you are finally starting to care about yourself and put your needs in a position to finally get supported.
Keep reading to find out some of my tips (formed from heart-wrenching experiences) on how to properly break up with someone!
The Right Time, The Right Place.
This is one of the first steps to breaking up with someone in a GOOD way. You need to know that there is a right time and a right place. But it’s not the right time and right place for your partner, it’s for YOU.
That was one of the biggest things in a break up I went through a few years ago; I was always putting it off and suffering longer because the timing never seemed right. Either my partner was going through it, and I didn’t want to add more fuel to his fire, or everything was going “right,” and I felt the need to suppress my true feelings that I had felt for months in order to spare his feelings.
That is not ok. Of course, this entire article is my opinion so at the end of the day you need to do what you need to do, but in my experiences, there is never going to be a right time, and if you keep waiting, you are going to feel the full effects of that mental strain for a lot longer than you need to– the consequences of waiting could be far worse than getting it over with and starting recovery asap. Read More…
