Five ways to stop self-sabotaging your success
When you constantly listen to that inner voice that seems to hold you back or hold on to habits that keep you away from what you desire most in life, you are simply undermining your way to success. Self-sabotage is in itself some weird sort of defense mechanism for overthinking all of your self-improvement decisions.
It is your subconscious trying to take cover, protect you, prevent pain, and tackle fear. The sad thing about this defense mechanism is that you end up hesitant about taking chances. You become paralysed with inaction.
Seizing opportunities becomes something new to you. You pass tantalising opportunities that involve stepping a little bit out of your comfort zone over to more enthusiastic colleagues. By the time you are retiring, you realise that you had foregone so many opportunities and you did not achieve your goals and dreams.
It all goes back to self-limiting behaviour. Most of the time, these behaviours develop over time without you noticing. They become part of your regular habits and character. You may want something, but somehow you never get to accomplish it.
You are fighting with your own self and succeeding at undermining your success. Here are a few steps that you need to take to stop self-sabotaging your success.
Recognise the self-destructive habits
Try to wear an outsider hat and examine your behaviour and identify the habits that keep holding you back. Here are a few pointers. Read More…