Here's how men can help women with breast cancer
Breast cancer is one of the most common cancers and a leading cause of death in women.
Hearing the news that your spouse was just given a cancer diagnosis can be devastating. You may have all sorts of questions about what will happen to your partner and what impact breast cancer will have on your life. Some people are scared their partner might die.
It’s normal to be concerned about the future. But try to take things a day at a time rather than focusing on things that may never happen.
Your feelings may begin to settle as the weeks and months go by. But some people continue to find it difficult to cope with how they’re feeling.
If your woman has been diagnosed with breast cancer, here's how to help her cope and find treatment:
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Communicate
Communicating openly with your spouse sets the stage for both of you to feel more comfortable sharing your feelings in the future. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. Communicate that you are scared as well.
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Stay close even if you're not making love
Breast cancer changes sex for a while. Most women lose sexual interest and energy while they're being treated. Be patient. Don't withdraw physically. In fact, cultivate physical closeness -- hugging, cuddling, holding hands, and so on. That lets her know that you still love her and find her attractive and appealing. Read More...