How to build trust in long-distance relationships
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Loading... - Ayouch Maria
- 24 Apr 2023
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Long-distance relationships (LDRs) can be both rewarding and challenging in equal measure. As a firm believer in the power of trust, I’ve found that trust is the glue that holds relationships together, especially when distance comes into play.
Back in 2015, my husband had to go to Norway, a continent away from me, on business. He needed to stay there for a year, and I couldn’t go with him because we didn’t want to uproot the kids in the middle of the school year.
I won’t tell you it’s easy. Because, wow, it was definitely challenging. But it’s not impossible to keep your relationship thriving despite the distance.
In this article, I’ll share some tips on how we managed to do it. Hopefully, they can help you If you’re in an LDR yourself.
Let’s dive in!
1) Create a vision for the future
The first thing we did once we sat down and discussed how things would be once he moved was to create our vision of the future.
You see, when you’re spending time apart, there are lots of things that can distract you from your relationship. So it’s super important to have a “why” – as in, why are you doing this? Why are you making this sacrifice?
This shared vision is what will keep both of you going when the separation feels too hard. Your common goals and aspirations will give you a sense of direction and purpose and help you manage your emotions.
You’ll find it easier to trust each other, knowing that you’re both doing what you have to for your shared future.
As you work on your shared vision, don’t forget to…
2) Set realistic expectations
The problem with having an LDR is that we can have expectations that aren’t entirely realistic. And we realize it only when it’s too late, when a discrepancy between expectation and reality arises. Read More…
