How to get out of the friendzone
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Loading... - Beatrice Obote
- 03 Apr 2023
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You’ve probably been in a friendzone for so long that you don’t know whether to accept it can’t go beyond that or try one more time and see if she’ll fall for you.
A friendzone simply is a situationship where a person is accepted and kept as a friend, not as a lover. Men rarely friendzone women. But women have a bunch of men in this basket! It leaves one with the hope that one day, they’d wake up to a love message.
This is a toxic zone . It’s the murky middle ground between being platonic and being romantic. One isn’t always sure if the glass is half empty, or half full. So when a woman, mostly, says they just want to be friends with you, it is a polite rejection.
Now, as a new year rolls into view, is the time to get your desperate self out of the friendzone. What men need to understand is that if a woman does not find you sexually attractive and desirable, she will keep you in the friendzone for years, sometimes throwing in mixed signals so you have hope that you’re almost getting to win her heart.
You’ll agree that a man rarely benefits from such a friendship. It’s the woman who does, 99 per cent of the time. She will be there receiving favours and gifts while she gives nothing in return. Often, she wouldn’t want to let you go because of free non-sexual attention, movies, free food, booze and those small small cash favours of Sh2,700 to refill a gas cylinder and Sh1,650 for braids, that the man wouldn’t mind giving her. Si she’s that friend?
A woman’s idea of the friend zone is to have someone of the opposite gender whom she doesn’t want to be with intimately but doesn’t want to be away from either! Like, dude, we can’t do this – just stay here as I go get banged elsewhere, I’ll be back. Typical of naenda hivi na-come. Read More…
