How Your Partner’s Attitude During Arguments Reveals Their Love
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Loading... - Fani Bintang
- 02 May 2023
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How do they treat you during difficult times?
Relationships cannot always be comfortable or perfect. Even the happiest couples have disagreements, conflicts, or arguments. Every individual has their own set of beliefs, preferences, and values. What is important is how your partner behaves and reacts during these moments of conflict can reveal their true character and how much they truly love you.
The honeymoon period of a relationship is often characterized by unconditional tolerance toward each other. Couples tend to appreciate each other’s imperfections and see their partner’s decisions and actions as perfect. They showcase their best selves to their partner, creating an illusion of the perfect lover they have been dreaming of. However, as time goes by, the other person’s flaws and bad habits begin to surface, and the once-perfect partner no longer seems so perfect.
As the relationship progresses, some people may argue with their partner, feeling hurt and damaged by their behavior, but they still don’t want to leave because they remember how good their partner was. They then convince themselves that their partner loves them so much by thinking about how good their partner was to them in the past.
However, they fail to recognize the harm caused by repeated bad behavior. Don’t just think about how good your partner is to you; consider their actions and how they treat you during difficult times.
In fact, it’s not about how your partner treats you when things are smooth, but rather it’s about their attitude and behavior towards you during an argument or disagreement. How your partner behaves during conflict can determine how much they love and respect you. A person who truly loves you won’t use their emotions as an excuse to hurt you. They will not belittle you, yell at you, or use abusive language to get their point across. Instead, they will continue to communicate calmly and respectfully to resolve the conflict. Read More…
