If you can choose "how old do you want to go back to", live your life from scratch again?
It is inevitable that some dreams and ideals in life have been shelved by you for a long time. It may be because you missed the opportunity, or you were beaten back to your original shape by reality, or you are simply lazy and don't want to work hard. Of those roads you didn’t choose, people you missed, opportunities you lost, which one makes you most want to do it all over again?
#1. The choices we didn’t make and the paths we didn’t take in the past are all regrets.
People always have the regret of "not getting the most beautiful forever", and because of this, they also have the so-called "red rose and white rose" idea.
Zhang Ailing explained this way: "Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one will still be "moonlight in front of the bed"; if you marry a white rose, the white one will become a speck of blood on your clothes." Fan Nianzi, the red one is a cinnabar mole on his heart."
People have infinite fantasies about what they have never had, what they have never chosen, and what they have never tried; but the fact is that if you are really given a chance to start over, you will inevitably encounter new problems and obstacles , may not be better than you are now. After all, it is only because of the unknown that "you have never had" that you put on a filter that "seems to be better", but it is not necessarily true. Read More…
