Ladies: If You Want A Better Love Life, Stop Being Passive
There's a big myth about what it takes to be an attractive woman.
There are certain preconceived notions about what it takes to be a successful dater as a woman, learn how to find love, and score a great boyfriend. This is a myth that is keeping you single and holding a lot of women back from having the great, loving relationships they want. What is this myth? The myth is that you, as a woman, should take the passive approach. Yeah, we all know that men who take the initiative are attractive. Who doesn't like a man who sets the tone and takes the lead?
Unfortunately, this leads a lot of women to believe that they have to be the opposite of a take-charge kind of guy. That is to say, a passive woman.
Don't be passive — be your proud, assertive self!
Being passive isn't attractive. Being passive isn't going to bring the men to you in droves, and get them to beg you to be their girlfriend. And being passive isn't going to give you great results in your love life. When you think about it, you already know this. After all, if you just took the passive approach with your career or your health, you probably wouldn't like where you'd end up — probably in a dead-end job and a lot plumper than you'd care to be.
We all know that in order to succeed in your career or your health, you have to take action and engage with those areas of life. So then why don't we do this with our relationships?
Probably because we're afraid of doing the man's job for him. After all, what could be more disappointing than meeting a guy for a date, getting in the car, and having him turn to you and say, "So, what did you want to do?" Ugh! You definitely don't want to take the man's role and take the initiative with things. That's not fun for anyone. Read More…
