Top 13 First Date Tips for Men That Will Help You Get a Second Date
As an experienced dating coach for men, I’ve strategized with guys from all over the world on how to structure a successful first date. First dates might seem nerve-wracking, but they can be simplified if you follow some basic rules.
During my 100-date experiment, I took notes on exactly what I thought men were doing right and wrong on my first date with them. From those notes, I’ve compiled what I think to be the best first date tips for men.
Top 13 First Date Tips for Men
#1: Make Your Intentions Clear

Make sure the woman you are meeting knows that you are meeting up for a DATE and not just a business or friend meetup. This is a top first date tip for guys because — without it — your date isn’t very qualified and you could be unintentionally booking yourself a one-way ticket to the friend-zone.
Before going on a first date, I recommend that you ask yourself, “Does she think it’s a date?” If you can’t answer yes, then you are setting yourself up for potential failure. When asking a girl out for the first time, always clarify your intentions:
“Hi Lauren, whatcha doing Saturday at 1pm? Wanna grab a coffee and go for a walk, like date style?”
Don’t worry about being rejected, it will only save you time and money if she tells you she has a boyfriend or is simply not interested in you on a romantic level.
In fact, being able to handle rejection is actually a very important part of the dating process. When you face your fears and accept rejection, you are able to:
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