What To Do If a Guy Is Hot and Cold Texting
Is a guy hot and cold texting? One minute it’s like he’s totally into you, the next, you have no idea? Wondering what to think? What to do even? And what it all means? Then you’ve come to the right place. In this post, we’re going to break down what to do if a guy is hot and cold texting, enabling you to regain control. So let’s start from the top…
What Is Hot and Cold Texting?
So first up, let’s get clear on what we mean when we say that a guy is hot and cold texting. I mean, what actually is hot and cold texting?
Well essentially, it’s where – one minute he’s fine, he seems interested (very much so actually!) and is really putting the effort in over text. The next it’s the complete opposite.. He’s distant, unresponsive, short in his replies, or you don’t even hear from him for days or weeks. (Yikes!)
Essentially, you never know what you’re going to get with him and what he’s going to be like. You’re getting mixed signals, mixed messages and it can be, quite simply: mind-boggling!
The thing is – it’s far easier for a guy to be hot and cold over text. After all, he doesn’t have to see you in person, and so it’s easier to pull back, then seem keen, without you being able to better gage what’s going on – like you would be able to when face to face.
For this reason – a guy hot and cold texting can be pretty common. But what’s the ACTUAL deal with that (other than the fact that it is easy to do?)
Why Is He Hot and Cold Texting?
So why might a guy be hot and cold texting? What’s the reason for it? Because this is actually key for working out the “what to do” part. Now unfortunately, there’s not one set answer (damn!)
However, have a read through the following possibilities to better determine what you think it’s most likely to be – based on the way he behaves.
(Uh huh, it’s just a case of piecing together the key signs and then presuming the most likely reason / cause and making a decision based on that!)
So, a guy could be hot and cold texting because…
