Why Do Men Like a Chase and How to Use it in Your Favor
People want what they can’t have, and that includes men. So, if you are wondering why men like a chase when it comes to women, here are your answers.
For a long time, women have always been told to play hard to get. And for just as long, men have been known to like the chase. But to truly excel in the dating game, you need to understand the whys before you blindly follow something that’s been passed from one woman’s ear to another.
Playing hard to get can feel conflicting for women, especially when you’re told to play hard to get from a guy you really like. If you like him, and he likes you, why would you want to play chase?
Don’t fret. We’re here to break down the common misconceptions about playing hard to get and explain why men like the chase.
Differences between men and women
A man’s natural instinct to enjoy when a woman plays hard to get can be traced back to the hunter and gatherer days. Put simply, the men were the hunters, and the women were the gatherers.
The men left the family and went out to hunt animals to feed themselves and their families. Meanwhile, the women gathered plants and related food items because that did not require a “hunting instinct”, instead, their instinct was to tend to the survival of the babies.
As you can imagine, the “hunting instinct” and the “maternal/gathering instinct” are two very different things.
Fast forward thousands of years and men still have the “hunting instinct.” The only difference is now there are no real animals to hunt *at least in the modern, civilized world*. So, where do they find outlets to practice their hunting instincts? Read More…
