10 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
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- 10 May 2022
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The feminine and the masculine are like opposite poles of a magnet. They would always attract each other, sometimes even without effort. If you spend a lot of time with guys, and they become comfortable around you, you will get to see this.
Some woman a guy has not met before might just do as little as walk past, flip her hair, or maybe even flash a smile or speak to some other stranger, and the guy immediately thinks she is sexy.
He immediately felt attracted to her and turned on by her. Do you think this just happens? Well, it does not. Check out these ten things women do that turn guys on:
1. Smile Turn Guys On
A smile, whatever kind, a full smile, a half-smile, anything is able to turn a man on. When you smile, you create an aura of warmth around you. If you walk into a room filled with people whose faces have been tightened into scary-looking frowns, you will immediately feel terrified and will pull the door back shut. You won’t go into that room again.
Whereas if you walked into a room filled with people whose smiles shone on your face, you would feel warm and welcome and might hang around there more.
Remember I said that the masculine is definitely attracted to the feminine. A smile exudes feminine essence. It shows that the woman is happy, and happy people know how to nurture stuff.
When you smile a lot, your feminine essence pulls on a masculine man because he can tell that you will be welcoming. He can tell that you are happy in your own skin. He starts to get pretty attracted to you and soon finds that you turn him on.
Learn to smile flirtatiously sometimes, especially around the guy you will like to turn on. Do not make it too obvious that you are trying to flirt with him if you suspect that he won’t welcome the idea.
2. Listening
One of the best things a man can have is someone, a woman, who listens to him. Many men admit that they feel alone sometimes, with no one to listen to them. They say that many people take their problems lightly when they talk about them and sometimes give them the; “Be a man” line.
While it may seem like men are macho and don’t want to talk, the opposite is usually true. Like all human beings, men crave a connection that offers them the chance to be vulnerable. They want to talk about the little details of their lives, laugh about the little things, and find closure from talking about their hurt.
A woman who listens to a man is such a turn-on to him because, by listening to him, she nurtures his interest and soothes his emotions. Remember, the ability to nurture, at its core, is an irresistible feminine trait. It sure turns the masculine on.
3. When a Woman Says Hero Instinct Phrases
Have you ever heard someone say stuff like this?
· You are the best
· You make things seem really easy
· I believe in you so much
· You are so strong, etc.
These phrases are called hero instinct phrases and are capable of turning men on.
In his book, James Bauer, a relationship coach and writer suggests that men are biologically wired to feel like heroes. This is true. Heroes have a lot to be envied for. They are loved, appreciated and celebrated. Men want to feel this way.
When you tell a man hero phrases, you create an aura where his masculinity can thrive. Of course, by telling him you believe in him and making him feel like a hero, you are saying that you consider him a great leader. Men want to lead; they want to give themselves up for their women.
Your hero instinct phrases will turn him on and have him attached to you in no time. Be creative when you play around with these phrases. Be genuine, too, such that he doesn’t feel like you are only deceiving him.
Men do not like to be lied to. It backfires.
4. Being Vulnerable Turn Guys On
Vulnerability is such a turn-on for men. In the same way, they want to be vulnerable to women; they also want women to be vulnerable to them.
How many times have you heard a man flare up about a woman, saying things like: “She doesn’t even talk to me.”?
If you are some kind of relationship counselor, you would have heard it a lot.
When a woman becomes vulnerable around a man, she is expressing her trust in him. It takes a lot of trusts for a person to be vulnerable, you know?
And we don’t just trust anything. By trusting a man, you are falling into your feminine essence. You are telling him that you are willing to be led by him, thereby letting his masculine essence grow.
Remember that it is his masculine essence that makes him turned on by the feminine. If it is suppressed or threatened, he will not be turned on by you. Instead, he will be completely turned off. He will avoid you a lot.
Talk to him. Tell him your deepest fears and desires, and let him see through you. It is sure going to turn him on.
5. Asking for Help Turn Guys On
It takes a lot of strength and humility to ask a person for help. This is such a turn-on for men—humility. Though women may sometimes be turned on by healthy ego and arrogance because it offers a healthy environment for their feminity to thrive, men seem to be turned on by the opposite.
Men love and are turned on a woman who is humble because she exudes her feminine essence this way. If you’re seeking to know things women do that turn guys on, then know that asking for help certainly does.
Ask for his help, even in the little things, especially in the little things. With work. With the meaning of a word. Read More…
