15 signs he thinks you're not good enough for him (and how to respond)
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Loading... - Himari Saito
- 15 Jun 2022
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In the course of dating someone, you may not realize that your partner is slipping away.
Maybe they’re no longer interested in seeing you, or they try to make excuses for disappearing from time to time.
If you’re unsure as to whether or not your guy likes you, it’s easy to see from the outside.
Here are some signs he thinks you’re not good enough for him and how to respond. Let’s jump right in.
1) He makes excuses for his behavior
A clear sign that a man thinks that you aren’t good enough to date is that he will avoid you and make lame excuses for his absence.
Have you ever been with someone who’s constantly making excuses for his behavior or poor choices?
When he’s not being a jerk, he pretends that everything is okay and starts giving you all sorts of excuses for why he did something or why it went the way it went.
This can include things like, “Oh I was just having a bad day,” “It’s not that big of a deal,” “It’s too much to ask of me,” and “Everyone else is doing it.”
It doesn’t matter if they’re being truthful or not. These are empty words and excuses. He isn’t concerned about explaining himself.
They don’t care because they can just make up any excuse, wash their hands of responsibility, and hope that you will accept it.
Just watch.
If it becomes a trend, he is placing you low on his priority list and you can respond by doing the same.
) He’s making excuses for why he doesn’t answer or respond
Another sign that your guy doesn’t like you is when he gets mad or seems irritated at you for questioning or asking him about something.
Let’s be honest, someone who wants to get to know you better will be interested in what you are thinking and what you are doing. They will enjoy it when you approach them and ask them anything because it’s a sign that you are interested in them.
He’ll always make up some excuse for his absence or he makes you wait forever in between messages.
You may never hear back from him at all.
It may be so bad that he blocks you on Facebook and ignores your texts but then the next day, he’s flirting with some girl at work or school or the gym.
What’s the deal?
Why isn’t he responding to you?
Why is he shutting you out and not communicating?
This is just another example of how he thinks you’re not good enough for him, because why would an “important” person be so tangled up online or waste his time on someone like you?
If your partner isn’t responding to your messages, it’s not that big of a deal.
Don’t sweat it. Move on. Why bother giving him attention?
3) He turns his phone off out of anger or frustration
Another sign that a man thinks that you aren’t up to par is that he will go for periods where he gets angry and stops communication with you.
When your guy is having a bad day, he might turn his phone off.
But he is likely to explain why in time and let you know that it was nothing personal.
Let’s be honest, someone who wants to get to know you better will be interested in what you are thinking and what you are doing. They will enjoy it when you approach them and ask them anything because it’s a sign that you are interested in them.
He’ll always make up some excuse for his absence or he makes you wait forever in between messages.
You may never hear back from him at all.
It may be so bad that he blocks you on Facebook and ignores your texts but then the next day, he’s flirting with some girl at work or school or the gym.
What’s the deal?
Why isn’t he responding to you?
Why is he shutting you out and not communicating?
This is just another example of how he thinks you’re not good enough for him, because why would an “important” person be so tangled up online or waste his time on someone like you?
If your partner isn’t responding to your messages, it’s not that big of a deal.
Don’t sweat it. Move on. Why bother giving him attention?
3) He turns his phone off out of anger or frustration
Another sign that a man thinks that you aren’t up to par is that he will go for periods where he gets angry and stops communication with you.
When your guy is having a bad day, he might turn his phone off.
But he is likely to explain why in time and let you know that it was nothing personal.
If a man doesn’t want to acknowledge the existence of you then he doesn’t think highly of you.
He may not notice your needs or even your needs for love, affection, and intimacy.
If he does not show interest in you then he thinks that he is superior to you in all aspects.
It’s important that if a man is ignoring you, you must take note of it and find people who can instead respect you and offer kindness.
If your man doesn’t treat you well, it can also be a sign that you don’t want to treat yourself well.
While this article will shed light on the main signs that a man will show that he doesn’t think you are good enough, have you considered speaking to a relationship coach about your situation?
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