5 Mindset Shifts to Finally Move on From a Brutal Situationship
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Loading... - Kaito Daigo
- 08 Feb 2023
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How to get control of your love life.
Situationships seem harmless, but they’re brutal.
If you’re lucky enough to have never gone through it, situationships are relationships that end too early. You’re not official yet, but you thought everything was going great: you had chemistry, enjoyed spending time together, and made plans for the future.
Then, they leave with no explanation.
Nobody tells you how much it hurts to lose love before it happens. It feels like you’re reading a book without an ending. You want more, but there’s nothing more.
It’s no wonder you can never move on.
So you spend weeks (if not months) trying to overcome this brutal rejection. You want to move on; you just don’t know how. You feel stuck. Even worse: you doubt your self-worth.
It’s time it ends. With these mindset shifts, you can finally get control of your love life.
You’ll stop suffering for people who didn’t do the bare minimum for you.
1. Learn the brutal truth.
I will start with the most brutal truth. It might hurt at first, but this might be precisely what you need to finally move on from your situationship.
You might think you had something special together. So you are hurt now because you think you lost the opportunity of a lifetime. How often do you find true love? What if you never find it again?
But there’s one reason why it didn’t work.
There’s one reason why your situationship never became a relationship: they don’t love you.
Your situationship ended because they simply didn’t feel the same as you. They didn’t think there was anything worth fighting for. When your crush loves you, they will never risk losing you. It might hurt to hear this, but I think it’s good news. Read More…
