5 people that can ruin your relationship
Relationships and marriages ought to be a sacred place between two people - a union free from distractions and outsiders.
Unfortunately, this is not so. Many intruders and outsiders can stray into your relationships. Here are some meddlesome interlopers;
1. The besties
Your partner should be your best friend. It’s easy for sexual and romantic feelings develop from promixity.
You might have had other best friends before them but once you get into a relationship, it may be time for those friends to step down so your partner can take that place.
And it doesn't have to be anything dramatic. All you have to do is make a mental note of who and what is most important to you now that you are in a [serious] relationship.
2. People who are just too nice
Even if your partner is not concerned about that nice colleague or neighbour, you don’t know what hidden intentions the 'nice' person may have and you don't want to feel indebted to them.
So, watch your step with people like that.
3. Exes or former friends with benefits
Many people like to announce to their exes or people they've been intimate with that they are now in a relationship, and can you blame them?
Keeping boundaries and letting them know you are off limits and inaccessible is one of the best things you can do. Read More…