Divorce and its associated issues
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Loading... - Hope Anaba
- 24 Aug 2022
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In many cases, prominent personalities, organisations, and scholars have diagnosed divorce in depth but have not come out with clear reasons, effects, and solutions. Blame games have constantly played all around to find answers to unanswered questions. Till now, the fight against divorce has become a significant disaster.
ISSUES SURRONDING DIVORCE
Courts have always given 10%-15% attention to families that continue to fight bitterly. They are caught between providing the rights to parents and trying to protect the child’s rights, leaning more on the parents’ rights as the latter always speak in the name of their children. This gives prominence to the court for contributing to the continued suffering of children in times of divorce.
The institution gives no guidance to the parents but instead lectures them at a critical breakup time to prevent further legal cases that might arise. It seems like they are just trying to avoid more issues from appearing in court than advising on how to improve parenting, a more significant lead to the causes of divorce.
Professionals like teachers, engineers or even doctors are neither taught parenting nor understand how to help children and parents co-exist after divorce.
This negligence has increased street children and psychological admittance to children’s hospitals for treatment.
Society believes that children can cope once parents are stable after the marriage breakup; this myth needs to be worked upon if everyone is to reduce divorce rates.
In the contemporary society where we live, organisations and companies are accused of being contributors to marriage wreckage.
Many employers understand the essence of family bonding but pay less attention to it and give more work schedules to employees, with minimal breaks for them to have ample time with their families.
Employers should treat the family bonding of their employees as a priority to achieve the required goal of reducing divorce. Read More...
