Surefire Ways to a Successful Double Date
Double dating with your favorite couple may feel like the two of you are going out on a date with them. Sure, you wouldn’t want to have sex with Chandler and Monica at the end of your double date. But it’s likely for you two to talk about how you both enjoyed the night and wonder if the other couple did, too.
Double Date Etiquette to Remember
Generally, double dating is fun and easy. However, things can go haywire really quickly. Personal issues, improper behavior from either of you, or copious displays of affection can turn a lively double date awkward. That’s why you’d need the following guide to bypass any unforeseen crises:
1. Choose the right couple
Picking the perfect couple to go on a double date with is like going on a date with someone perfect for you. It requires compatibility.
Your best friend may be a wonderful human being, but the relationship with their significant other may be less-than-great. You don’t want to sit awkwardly for an hour or two, faking a laugh because they’ve been bickering nonstop.
Take a few moments to think about how perfect all four personalities match. You will want to go out with a pair who can keep the mood light, and are incredibly funny and insightful. They also have to be a couple of friends with whom you can share your secrets.
When picking the perfect pair to go on a double date, try to find a good blend of characters to prevent one person from monopolizing the discussion or shying away.
2. Plan an activity everyone will like
Don’t take non-drinker friends to a wine tasting or those that get seasick quickly to a yacht dinner cruise. While the activities you planned are incredibly fancy, they might not appreciate them simply because they’re not interested in those things. Be sure everybody will like that activity so that everyone can enjoy it.
Another thing to think about is the purpose of your double date. If you’re getting together to get to know your best friend’s significant other and vice versa, consider going somewhere that can help you do that. A dinner date in a restaurant, drinks at a bar, or a book night at home may be perfect.
If you’re looking to blow off steam as a group, adrenaline-inducing activities indoors or outdoor may be ideal. You could do indoor rock climbing, a Ping pong match, or out-of-town hiking. You may also try enrolling yourselves in a pottery or cooking class if you want to break out of a rut.
3. Do something within your and the other couple’s budget
It’s essential to pick the perfect hangout place or out-of-town site for your and the other couple’s optimum fun. But you must also throw into account how much they’re willing to spend for the get-together.
Concurrently, you must be mindful of their costs or additional effort. Do they have to rent a car just to get to your destination? Then, try to adjust your trip accordingly.
Forcing your friends to go beyond their budget (or call of duty) will make things awkward, so always check in with them. Of course, your best bet should be an at-home gathering. You can also send them links about a place, so they’d know about the price without explicitly telling them.
4. Take a few moments to yourselves
Spending small breaks with your significant other can be a good idea now and then during a double date. You might subtly ask your date to get the next round of drinks or prepare the dinner table with you.
These moments alone can give you both some time to enjoy each other’s company. You can also take this time to consult your partner if they’re enjoying the get-together.
5. Steer clear of highly personal questions
Avoid over-sharing extremely personal details to the group. While double dating is about knowing each other better and fostering a deeper connection, there is always a limit to how much you’re willing to share information.
Don’t ask how much your friend’s partner earns or when they’re planning to pop the question. Hold your tongue and consider if that something will entertain the group or make them feel uncomfortable.
If your friend has already told you something about their partner’s situation, don’t announce to the group that you already do. Even if a piece of information isn’t that sensitive or racy, people easily get annoyed when they find out someone else knows things about them that they didn’t even share. Read More…
