From talking about sex or yourself too much to arriving late, here's what to avoid on a first date
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- 13 Jun 2022
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Dating can be fun, but it can also be stressful, and the most stressful date is always the first one.
Here are some things to avoid, making sure your first date leads to a second.
Not showing up authentically
We all want to make a good first impression, but often we try to do this by being who the other person wants us to be rather than showing up as who we are.
Talking too much about yourself
Talking about yourself is great, but don't monopolise the conversation. Not asking questions.
Showing interest is not just about eye contact or laughing at their jokes. It's also about asking questions about their life and being curious about who they are.
Being late
It's important to respect your date. Be on time and show them that you're excited and want to connect.
We chatted to a few women who shared their thoughts on what people should avoid doing on a first date.
When it comes to food, one reader advises: "Don't order ribs, or a burger, or anything you're unfamiliar with on the menu. You're just going to be focused on your food and how to eat it."
Another adds: "Find something easy to eat. Not a salad, but something easy."
Cut the sex talk
"Don't talk about sex. Talk about yourself and not your 'thing'. Don't be too thirsty," says another reader. Read More…
